Why You Always Pick Wrong Mate?

When it comes to relationships, a lot goes into attracting the partner you attract and picking the right person to be in your life. 

Learn the why and how you chose whom you chose and how to positively enhance the choices you make.

What Attraction Is All About

Attraction - the physical likeness you have for someone based on appearance or personality or both.

Reflect on past relationships and your current one. 

• What qualities are most attractive to you? 

• Which ones are negative in your life? 

• Which ones do you want to consciously seek out? 

• What attracts you? 

• Confidence, bad boy behavior, intelligence, codependency or a great sense of humor? 

How To Focus On Love In A Positive Way

Been hurt by love in the past? 

Focus on feelings of self-love. 

Use affirmations and visualizations to center you. 

Calm the negative internal chatter and accept love as already existing in your life.

Use your imagination as a powerful tool for attracting the right partner. 

What does your ideal relationship look like? 

Is it comforting, safe, unconditional, humorous and filled with warmth and support? 

Refuse Negative People

Avoid negative situations in all ways. 

Like gossipy co-workers, violent news coverage on TV and thinking about relationships in a negative way. 

Instead focus on what inspires you in people, such as a sense of humor, intelligence, originality, sense of purpose, focus and kindness. 

Send out your best qualities by connecting with others; show off your sense of humor, passion, compassion, thoughtfulness, and artistic abilities by getting involved in order to meet the right mate. 

Someone who has something in common with you and loves all of you.

Affirmations For Being With Right Companion

Finding the right mate is about letting go of the wrong one. 

What holds you back from letting negative relationships go?

Fear of being alone, of being alone forever or not being able to let go of their need for you? 

Let yourself go of negative attachments to the wrong mate and open yourself up to the right one. 

Set your intention for kindness, unconditional love and focus on feelings of self-love and respect instead of fear and disrespect.

Conclusion

There are many reasons you may be attracting the wrong mate but on a subconscious level. 

Use these tips to break free from making the same mistakes in love again and you will have a satisfying, exciting love life for the future.