Are You Always The One Getting Dumped?

Are you in agony over getting dumped for the last time? 

If getting dumped is more common to you than the common cold, please do not despair. 

Having said that, here are reasons why you are always getting dumped.

1. Too Needy 

You act clingy. 

You do not give your partner his or her space. 

You act as if you cannot live without your partner. 

Your partner begins to feel trapped and dumps you when he or she cannot take it anymore.

2. Too Independent 

You act so independent, as if you do not need your partner. 

If you are not making your partner a priority, he or she will likely feel as if he or she is not the one. 

The result is often to be dumped. 

3. Too Boring 

In other words, you do not offer your partner anything. 

You may not express who you are, do not have much going on in your life and without the drive to do something about it.

You are also not passionate about anything. 

4. Different Values 

This should not be taken personally. 

It is about your partner not feeling that you have similar values, philosophies or perceptions in certain areas of life. 

Usually this refers not to external but internal things that drive someone to get dumped. 

5. Too Successful 

This mostly refers to men or women getting dumped. 

This can be a power struggle by men, who often do the dumping. 

You should not see success as something to hide. 

But if you are dumped more than once or twice for being too successful, you may need to evaluate how you talk and behave when sharing your success stories. 

Do you always brag about it without taking into consideration how the other person feels?

Having pointed out a few possible reasons, here are ways to adjust your communication style, attractiveness, and relationship knowledge to ensure you stay with someone you love. 

1. Celebrate

After being dumped, focus on the opportunity now that you are single again. 

Do not spend a second worrying, fretting or getting angry about being dumped. 

Rather enjoy the freedom! 

2. Desperation Makes a Difference 

Unless your partner is already attached, engaged or even married, there is every reason he or she may smell desperation from miles away. 

• Do you need someone?

• Or do you want someone? 

Between both, there is a small but significant difference. 

Set the bar high for yourself. 

No one wants anyone who will just take whoever is there. 

Set the standard for someone who has everything you are looking for. 

Sweet-natured, positive, has something unique to offer you and so on.

3. Expressing Yourself 

How do you express yourself? 

Take some time to reflect upon how you come across to others. 

Ask your best friends how a stranger sees you. 

Do you come across as approachable? 

Compassionate or intimidating? 

What qualities are past partners seeing in you? 

How can you improve? 

Make a list of everything you like to enhance about yourself and why. 

Set goals for qualities you need to improve your relationships. 

Not just your dates. 

But your families, friends and relatives. 

Conclusion:

Getting dumped is hard to admit to. 

But when you take an honest look at yourself and your part in the failed relationship, you can improve yourself. 

As well as qualities that others do not deem as attractive in order to become more attractive for a new partner.