10 Creative Ways To Spice Up Your Love Life

There is nothing more exciting than a spontaneous, thrilling love life, but what happens when the romance goes stale and your sex life has become predictable? 

Here are 10 exciting and creative ways to add some spice to the bedroom so that you look at your partner with yearning like you once did.

1. Buy A Sex Book And Have Fun Reading It Together

Focus on something new to spice up your relationship by buying a sex book and reading page by page for new additions to the bedroom!

Make it fun but do not take it so seriously.

Use a sex book as approach to bring flirtation and experimentation in your relationship. 

If nothing else, it is a great way to laugh with your partner. 

2. Try A New Position

Tired of being on top each time or having sex in the missionary position? 

Try to be creative by selecting a new position in bed.

Different sex positions can amount to different orgasm intensity.

Studies show that men and women who are diverse in their sex positions experience greater overall emotional connection as well. 

Intimacy starts in the bedroom but translates to all areas of your relationship. 

3. Role Play

Live out your fantasies safely with role-playing. 

Focus on roles that excite you. 

Like a bartender, dominating boss, flight attendant, ship captain etc. 

Make it fun and flirtatious! 

Why limit role-playing to the bedroom? 

Go out in costume and hit the bar, a restaurant or a party acting out discreetly!

4. Make Out With Each Other More

Where has all the kissing gone? 

Long-term relationships fail to keep up passionate kissing, often when the dust of your relationship settles. 

Bring it back with a new kissing style. 

As in sweet, passionate, aggressive or practice stealing kisses when he or she least expects it! 

5. Focus On The Erogenous Zones

There are 10 erogenous zones. 

Hit them all for an exciting way to spruce up the romance. 

The erogenous zones include the lips, earlobe, toes, back of the ear, back of the neck, stomach, scalp, inner arm etc. 

Focus on each one and in random order. 

6. Have Sex In A Scandalous Location 

Move your sex out of the bedroom for a sizzling hot sex life!

Focus on wherever you feel safe and excited to have foreplay and sex. 

Such as your backyard, kitchen or car.

Have sex during unpredictable times, so your partner will think of you as unpredictable. 

7. Describe Your Fantasies To Each Other 

Focus on describing in detail your fantasy life. 

Talk in a whisper to your partner, touch your partner’s arm and graze his or her neck while passionately kissing him or her. 

Then go back to the exciting fantasy you’d love for them to play out with you.

8. Flirtatious Body Language

Gaze into your partner’s eyes, and then lean in for a passionate embrace. 

When your partner begins to wince at your passion, slowly move back while gazing in his or her eyes. 

Lean into your partner’s body while feeding him or her a spoonful of decadent desert. 

9. Speak to Each Other Using Double Meaning

Focus on double meanings in conversation to spice up your love life. 

It is easy and can be done with virtually any topic. 

Throw your partner off guard with your flirtation.

For example: This food is spicy, isn’t it? Well, I sure know another way to turn the spice up this evening.

10. Feed Each Other Dinner

Devote an entire night to feeding your partner his or her meal. 

Keep it going with simple foods. 

Such as vegetables, seafood, meat, fruits, desserts, sweets or snacks.

Anything that can easily be put into your partner’s hands. 

The more you use your hands, the better!

Conclusion:

Whether you want to become more attractive to your partner or just want to shake things up, flirting, having sex in a new location or just feeding each other a meal is the way to go. 

Use these tips and take your relationship to a whole new level.